Taking the first step to leave an abuser is a critical time when a woman needs a reliable safety plan. If you were directed to Lydia’s House or found us through an online search, we are grateful to be a resource. However, it is important to know that Lydia’s House is a transitional housing program, not a crisis shelter or emergency hotline.

If you are in crisis and seeking emergency shelter, keep scrolling for a list of resources in the St. Louis area and surrounding counties. Call 911 if you are in immediate danger.

Women are referred to Lydia’s House by shelter advocates when a need for continued safety and support has been identified. We rely on crisis shelters and emergency hotlines to serve as an essential first point of contact before residents are transitioned to Lydia’s House for long-term support. Please remember, internet activity and phone calls can be traced. Do not use a computer or phone your abuser has access to. Avoid cordless phones. The public library offers free computer use at their local branches. Click below to read more about computer safety.